The Blue Christmas Service is a quieter service in the middle of a noisy season, for anyone who has had a little sadness, loneliness, of feelings of loss. Because let’s face it, it’s been a tough year. Join us for a reflective service of hope this season!

Come to worship, pray, and fellowship with other brothers and sisters-in-Christ. After the service, we will enjoy a simple supper together, as an extension of community and care, so please sign-up in the lobby at CCJV.

For more information, please contact Connie Rondeau or Elisa Marco Méndez at (951) 685-1180 or email at: servant@calvarychapeljurupavalley.com.

A Blue Christmas Service will have elements of quiet reflection, accompanied by
scripture, responsive readings, and the lighting of candles. The idea behind the Blue Christmas Service is to create space for the acknowledgment of the heaviness often carried during this season, as well as offering the hope that only Jesus gives. Our society has become one of masking emotions that are sometimes considered negative. Science has proven this is not healthy for us physically, socially, or spiritually. The Bible clearly acknowledges, celebrates, and makes space for pain, struggle, hardship, and tears—and so should we.

The Blue Christmas service is all about making space during a season that is noisy with celebration to acknowledge the “both/and” of our emotions. It’s an avenue of making space for beautiful pastoral care and compassionate community, for those who are struggling. A Blue Christmas Service makes room for sadness, loneliness, or loss during the holidays.

Although, on the other side of heaven, we absolutely will have a day of no more tears, the reality is life on this planet can be difficult. The holidays, for many, are NOT 100% happy. For those who have suffered loss, the holidays actually accentuate feelings of sadness. Being surrounded by happy Christmas carols and holiday parties may cause people to mask their feelings or even create some shame around having them. However, when a loved one is no longer present to celebrate the holiday, there is often guilt, sadness, and loneliness.

Making room for sadness, grief, and loss around Christmas is not a new concept. In fact, it dates way back in history and is the reason for the season of Advent. Advent is often called the season of waiting. What are we waiting for? Hope. The Messiah. A Savior.

Celebrating Advent is the recognition that we need a savior. That although the world may be dark, difficult, and lonely, there is a promise coming. That promise culminates in the birth of a baby. Recognizing our loss and making space for grieving doesn’t minimize the promise. It accentuates it. A Blue Christmas Service is a beautiful addition to the Christmas season.